Laura Rossi Totten, mother of 10-year old girl-boy twins, is a blogger and social media addict with her own public relations agency. Her blog, My So-Called Sensory Life http://www.mysocalledsensorylife.com/, was named a “Top 25 Most Inspiring Families Blog” by Circle of Moms and a 2010 Babble Top 40 Nominated Mom Blog. Previously, Laura worked at Random House, Viking Penguin and W.W. Norton. Her writing has appeared on local NPR and in Psychology Today, NJFamily.com, and The Chronicle of Higher, among many other places.
Dear J and M,
We talk about “gifts” in our family a lot. Not the gifts you put in your hand but rather hold in your heart. It’s this other type of gift I want you to think about tomorrow.
What you don’t know about me is that my philosophy of seeing the best in all situations and being positive no matter what is a gift that I trace back to my own father, whom you two call Papa and love as dearly as I do.
Papa has always been one of my greatest teachers and still is today. It’s miraculous to have him be able to do the same for my own children. The bond you both have with him started on the day you were born and grows stronger all the time. Papa embodies the word grandfather.
On Sunday, we’ll have the rare chance of celebrating Father’s Day with both your Dad and my Dad.
As an extension of my personal blog and writing, I practice finding daily gratitude. This Sunday, I’ll be thankful that Papa’s gifts are alive in both of you:
- A love of learning
- A sense of humor
- Listening…really listening
- History, facts, trivia
- The bonds of family
- Fixing and figuring out how things work
- Appreciating how fun a trip to the hardware store or dump can be!
And so much more.
You’ll always have part of my Dad, your Papa, inside each of you. Not all children get this special gift. It’s one I know you’ll pass down to your children someday.
Here’s to celebrating the wisdom of fathers throughout our family.